[teens stories] MY BOYFRIEND TOLD ME TO PUT MORE EFFORT INTO MY APPEARANCE

My skin is summer cool tone so I don't suit heavy makeup, don't really suit dyed hair either. I'm tall but I'm pretty skinny so I usually a shirt with jeans or a hoodie with slacks. But my boyfriend told me that when he meets with me, he always puts in effort in his outfits, he would even try to put on a little bit of makeup borrowed from his sister and do his hair too. So he asked me why would I put so little effort when going out. He told me to put on more makeup, dye my hair and perm them, and to wear skirts and dresses or more feminine clothing. I get that he's sad but I do everything I can too... I do do my hair and even though it's not heavy makeup, I still put on minimal makeup... what should I do? He's been sulking up all day and been so quiet.

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1. [+442, -33]

The comments here are so weird. It's not that OP doesn't wear makeup, she does her makeup and hair. She's tall and skinny, that's why she wears what fits her body better. She does her share to meet her boyfriend so isn't the boyfriend the weird one to tell her to put more effort in herself? It's not like she was going on dates with her bare faces, training suit and slippers ㅡㅡ Her boyfriend just wants her to change for his own pleasures ㅡㅡ try meeting someone who finds you pretty just the way you are instead

2. [+335, -22]

Everything your boyfriend said was BS.. I can see the end

3. [+232, -82]

I think that I would be sad at his place too though ㅠㅠ.. when I meet my boyfriend, I always prepare for hours and put in so much effort, so he might think that you gave no thought in meeting him... Maybe try to share your reasoning with him? If he still wants you to put on more makeup and adorn yourself better, then I think that the best thing is just to break up

4. [+123, -4]

No but... I don't understand. It's not like you were meeting him wearing a training suit and slippers. And you also prepare yourself based on your own conditions so why does your boyfriend want you to keep up with his needs...? You have your own standards of how to adorn yourself but he wants you to do it his way. I don't understand why you should go by his standards

5. [+113, -2]

"More feminine", what BSㅋㅋㅋ

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